We Must Be Careful to Not Speak Falsehood, nor Mislead for the Sake of Kindness

Often we have all heard the phrase "Oh, that was only a white lie."

However, falsehood is always false and never can be interpreted as truth.

When anyone tells a lie to not hurt another person's feelings...we actually hurt them far worse than speaking the truth.

First, even those we think are not very smart or lack intelligence, they still recognize when they are being lied to!

Not in every situation will they know the truth that they are being deprived of, but they recognize when they have been lied to.

All that is derived from one's lie is not shielding anyone from pain, but inflicting the pain of fear and distrust in both the speaker who "told a white lie"...at best
but chances are their trust possibly in many around associated with that speaker who were once loved...now are suspected...

And now the person whose feeling one thought he were sparing becomes skeptical and leery of everyone within the same circle of friends or associates.

Associates is a far more appropriate word, for anyone who tells one lie..another is coming out quick behind it to cover the first.
So it is impossible for a habitual liar to have true friends because to have a friend one must be a friend... and how can a habitual liar ever be loyal to even his friend.

Those who must hide behind masks do so because their true selves are not acceptable.  They have no true friends, but only those who are their partners in deceit.

And where are such folks leading HIS little ones?

We are all being watched by someone... someone who may be lost; someone who is searching.  We are all being copied having someone to many following our foot steps.....

To where are your choices leading others to the same you have chosen.....  To Heaven...or to Hell!

How Do You Handle a Conversation Between Hot-Headed Folks You Are Among?

Have you ever found yourself in a situation you certainly were not expecting to happen;
One say with your spouse and another couple?

You possibly aware that both your spouse and your friend's spouse both have some faults...
One maybe way out of line, and the other close to out of control....

Do you know how to maintain the peace without compromising one's values and without disrespecting the marriage of the couple you and your spouse is with and at the same time backing your own spouse not dividing either marriage?

We must all set boundaries that protect the covenant of ones own marriage....
For each man is to only have eyes for his own wife...

Scripture says that if a man simply looks at another man's wife he has committed adultery in his heart!

We are to cast down imaginations and it helps not to go out and about without ones own spouse...
No man who ever really loved his own wife when he first married ever "Falls out of love"...

No, he just neglects to fertilize the seeds he sowed when he said before GOD and men:
"I Do I Do I Do take you for my lawful wedded wife!"
And begins to fertilize the wrong field!

A man must be very careful being friendly with his friend's wife... for when he crosses the line...
It will be too late...and he could find himself really alone ...
No wife! No Friend! And could even lose his very soul...

Losing not only a best friend and his own wife...but any and all sin seperate us from GOD

For the end times are here and now and Jesus just may pass such a man by for the very last time!
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